Used to be that enjoying anal sex was taboo for women. If a couple did give anal a test drive, it was seen as a once-in-a-while experience—something a woman indulged in for her partner's sake, not because she actually enjoyed it. Lately, however, it seems that this script has been flipped.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. Sophie Saint Thomas. Butt sex can be incredible — but anal sex demands respect. As psychologist David Ley, PhD, once told Refinery29 : "If you try to do it the way most porn does, it will be like learning to shoot from watching Steven Seagal movies: Somebody will get hurt. For the most part, there's one anal sex position in mainstream porn: the receiving partner bent over, somehow enjoying being jackhammered in the booty by a massive penis. While anal sex from behind can feel marvelous and indeed provides fairly easy butthole access , it's neither the only nor the most pleasurable position for everyone. But before you even choose a position and stick a penis or a strap-on dildo into an anus, you have to make sure that that anus is properly loved and cared for. That means starting small with fingers, butt plugs, or anal beads and moving up to a penis or larger dildos and using plenty of lube, since the anus isn't self-lubricating.
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This is one of the things to consider in choosing positions for anal. A nice pillow nest to lean into is good here, too. Others love it: lots of room to move.
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